What Do Men Want When it Comes to Sex?
Well, that’s a pretty easy one actually. What the vast majority of guys want (by a long mile) is oral sex. Over and over again, this is what we get from guys when the question is posed, ‘what do men want when it comes to sex’?
Of course, in generally they want much ‘more’ of sex to start with. But the very first thing that will typically run off his lips is ‘oral sex’ and then ‘more oral sex’. This is just how guys are wired and is usually their preference.
So, are you giving him what he wants? Are you making in happy when it comes to the boudoir? Remember, he wants it often and he wants oral, it’s that simple. Add it a bit of variety to the mix and you’re onto a winner.
By the way, men love it when ‘you’ take the initiative on the odd occasion; that’s because usually it’s left up to him to make the first move. So if you get in there first with flirtation, some rude words in his ear or a hand down his pants, he’s going to be very very happy.
On the subject of fellatio, you don’t have to swallow just to please him. Your guy will still enjoy the oral stimulation you give him – you can always spit it out on him or you and then just sexily massage it in. He would rather that, than not have it at all. I mention this here because a lot of women just don’t like the idea of swallowing. And bear in mind, your guy will ‘taste’ differently from one day to the next, seriously. The foods and drink he consumes will alter how thick or how runny his ‘juice’ is when he climaxes. So some days you won’t mind it and others you will…
It goes without saying but guys love it when their gals make an effort and dress up for them – whether it’s a naughty school girl outfit or sexy lingerie. They don’t mind shopping for this kind of stuff too – this is one shopping trip he’s going to be happy to join you on.
Another thing, don’t go worrying about your wobbly bits (which he probably hasn’t even noticed). He just wants sex, he wants you to be ‘into it’ as much as he is and for you to genuinely enjoy it. Other than that, he’s not concerned with your cellulite or whatever else might be bothering ‘you’. Guys don’t notice all the stuff that we women do.
One thing however that most guys do agree on is they like their gal’s girlie bits to be nice n’ neat; that is, there aren’t that many guys who go in for the ‘bush’ look. So think shaved or Brazilian (most of them love this) or at least, keep nice n’ trimmed. On the subject of Brazilian, it’s not as bad as you think!
If you take in all the above, give him regular sex, with a healthy dose of fellatio on top, he is going to be one very happy and very satisfied guy; remember, guys want as much sex as they can possible get and his absolute favorite is always going to be oral.